BIG SEAN

I HEART THIS MAN...seriously.

Let me recap a few things I've learned whilst being in the seduction community.

Early community days

• 3-second rule approach
• opener
• time constraint
• disqualify
• befriend group
• isolate
• kino
• comfort
• number/kiss/SNL
• Cocky funny
• Peacocking
• AMOG

Middle years of community

• Frame control
• Inner Game
• Cocky Funny Advanced
• social proof
• advanced peacocking
• comedy
• improv
• day game
• body language
• buying temperature

Recent community

• Natural game
• RSD Lording
• Core Identity
• Mystery Method - considered unnatural
• Alpha body-language examples
  
• Laser eyes/ Sticky eyes
• Vocal Projection
• More mainstream/Sexual clothing- Peacocking deemed too crass and faggish..
• Frame control - Swinggcat
  
• Ploughing
• Entourage game

Inner game specialists works were introduced as a result of RSD's Natural movement such as:

• Eckhart Tolle's Power of Now
• Byron Katie's The Work
• The Sedona Method (can you let go? When? lol)
• George Leonard's The Art of Mastery
• Robert Greene's 48 laws of power
• Josh Waitzkin Art of Learning
• Michael Jordan's Driven from within
• Ayn Rand The Fountainhead and Atlas Shrugged
• David Deida- The Way of the Superior Man
• The Red Queen
• Sperm Wars

Alpha-male characters from movies and TV Shows

Adopting Body language of George clooney, Brad pitt, Denzel Washington, James Gandolphini's and Tony Soprano too name a few.

Lifestyle development

Become a sex-worthy guy whose lifestyle attracts women. Develop other areas of life such as health (become more attractive physically and take part in a sport or two), wealth (become more financially independent by avoiding the rat race and opting for more innovative income streams) and relationships (commit to creating better relationships with friends and families, actively approach new people whose lifestyles you wish to emulate and can add more value to your life).

I have been apart of the seduction community since 2006. It has been a life changing experience as that it has given me the tools to really make a MASSIVE change in my life's direction. I have been very fortunate to be exposed to this information. It has given me an insight reserved for the few. I'm not speaking of regular community shit but more in depth high-tech knowledge which will help me achieve my goals.

Now back to the main topic of this thread. Sean Messenger was a bastion of the early days of the pickup community. He came into the pickup with PU101, that hosted insanely expensive bootcamps that caused a number of desperate individuals a bad case of buyer's remorse ( kinda like banging a gremlin).

However after a few years of having his soul bitch slapped by the devil re-incarnate lance mason, he decided he would take a more should we say, pacifist type approach. Considering Sean's apperance (one part tatted irish hard-knock, 6'4, built like a bull, with eye contact so intense you might...tinkle in your calvin's) and his overall belief system, it provides an interesting synergy of opposing forces. The 'Ard bastard with the heart of gold. Believe you me, Sean DOES have a really good heart and I say this as a complete stranger.

I am usually a good judge of character and can tell BS from a mile away but SM is the real deal. He's a really down-to-earth individual who gives value like no other. He had the chance to make it big with PU101 but decided to discard that whole phase of his life and start afresh. I commend that and can admire someone who is willing to put it all on the line for integrity.

I've also learned a few things so this post isn't necessarily a SM cockfest ( no homoerotic).
Sean Messenger is an avid believer of the natural, integrity, respectful, ballsy type of approach to seduction. He has removed himself from the routine based gaming and advocates developing the inner game of the individual, a no-guru type of approach.

This in turn leads to a well balanced individual which I for one, believe is the way forward.

In other areas of the community, there is now also a great model for newbies to follow on their PUA journey. There are a number of methods out there which basically advocate the same things under a different logo and name so it may confuse newbies who have entered the game post mystery. However, with the wide spread infection of fraudulent companies popping up and every dude who masters the game wanting to teach what he has learned back to the community, a watch dog is needed more than ever.

Sites like theplace are great for a more neutral review. This has helped keep me centred as I get a heads-up on the up and coming products.

Anyways I just felt like writing a little review of what I had learned in the community so far just to keep track. This is not detailed by any manner but just provides a brief overview of the community lineage as it grows.

I am committed to executing the plan which I have set for myself starting with the Superconfidence course. I will start tomorrow unlike the bitch-move I made last week.

TIME FOR SOME ACTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

RETURN OF THE MACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HELL YEAH BIATCHES!!!! Im back. Let me break down what Ive just been through. After finishing my usual wankathons (which have to stop btw), I checked my rss feed and browsed through a few of my fav blogs, one which happens to be written by a dude who I am absolutely certain is in one of my classes at uni. I don't know the dude but would love to meet him (no homo) because we share common interests, he's heavily into the A-Ron, NYC, Heron Preston, Fixed Gear bikes type of steez. So he's basically a really cool dude from what I can see from his blog. ANYWAAAAAAAAAAYYYYSS. As I was saying, I'm reading this dude's blog and happen to just click one of the links on the comments section which then forwards me to this other dude's blog.

This new dude (let's call him A because I'm too lazy to get the blog name) has a post on an Unofficial Nike ID party and some pics to go along. There happened to be a Facebook group dedicated to this party so I basically clicked and waited. Boom. I immediately thought of Goldie locks.

I haven't had a oneitis EVER really but this chick here is basically one of the prototypes for my ideal girl. Ok that last sentence made no sense. Basically she's WIFEY status.

Anyways, I click the illustrious group and join. I see the names of the organisers which so happens to be the Nike ID staff that work in Niketown London. I click one of the female names in hopes of finding her. ERRRRRRRRRRRRR nope. Tried again...........................Gabriella Golds.

FUCK ME!!!!..its her....lol. Dude I don't even know this chick and I'm like yes she's mine..lol.
Anyways, I do the obligatory snooping of her photos and other "important" info. My manhood sensed correctly but there was a bonus. SHE'S A TWIN!!!!!!!!!!! Damn...

The name fits, the body is amazing, cute face, lovely green eyes, golden curly hair, light skinned mixed race babe. What more do i need. I basically start to obsess about her friends etc etc. To workout what she may be into. I basically do this stupid approval seeking ANAL PROBE on myself ( No homosexual) for about an hour. I think 'damn this girl is to nang. What do i do? I wanna be her man blah blah blah'. I think to myself she's a hypebeasts prototype in that she is into the scene deep so you have common interests and LOADS to chat about. Perfect GF material.

Then I do some further Sherlocking (see what I did there..Sherlock was a...FUCK it never mind) and find her and these hood rat niggas from the bits (South im guessing) doing the obligatory 'NAPA (insert year of debauchery) trip. HMMMM...and here I am thinking this girl is probably posh and is not into hood niggas. Boy was I wrong.

I hit the LSS and click a random post by one of the suicidal individuals on the board whom after reading his shit isn't I'm afraid..lol? Anyways, man dem is complaining something serious about him not being able to feel worthy in the presence of 9s and 10s. After scrolling past the usual flame replies I find a sweet link by none other than LSS Lord Mega Pork of the Swinedom.

BOOM!..

Read....

4 concepts:

-Player not spectator (source: Tim RSD)
- Be present, clear your mind (source: Eckhart Tolle)
- No penitence or resistance (source: RSD, Bullboy, Me)
- Let women inspire you (source: Gunwitch, David Deida)

read the first then the second and finally......

BOOOOMM!!!

NO PENITENCE or RESISTANCE

"If you've watched the blueprint, you will know that resistance is an emotion. Just like happiness or sadness. Resistance is the emotion you feel when your environment / reality is not to your liking. It comes across as an uncomfortable feeling. A passiveness that shuts you down and restricts you from action.

Penitence is another emotion. It is the feeling of beating yourself up over something that you have or have not done.

To me these two emotions are linked and neither emotion pertains to having FUN. The fact is that you will NOT always like your environment and it is inevitable that you will make mistakes. That you will freeze or not act when you promised yourself or that you will fuck up. But unfortunately, being a perfectionist is pointless in PU, so what you should do instead is deal with the emotions when they turn up.

1. Again, be self aware. Notice if you are feeling either emotion. The tricky thing about our emotions is that they are such a deep part of ourselves that we often don't notice if we are feeling a certain way. If you feel them, cut them off immediately.
2. Realise that if entertained, either resistance or penitence will NOT help you. There is no point entertaining either emotion. Notice I'm not saying feel, because you can't help that, but rather let those emotions get the better of you. Since they will not help you, when you notice them, you need to quickly get on top of them.
3. Eckhart Tolle says that if you experience something you have two options, you can accept it, or you can change it. Being able to clear your mind using the techniques I mention above will start you off. The next step is then to quickly jolt yourself into action.

A practical example: You promised yourself that you will open the next hotty but you don't. So you start to beat yourself up about it. But then you notice that you are beating yourself up about it. So you say to yourself, fuck that, clear your mind and relax. Walk away for a bit and open another girl.

The same goes for resistance. Except with resistance you more often have to accept what's going on. For example, you're in a club with hot girls but you don't like the music. What do you do? Bitch about the music, or just get on with it and just appreciate the environment for what it is?

Another resistance example is you want to get into "state", but because you want it, your current emotion is not good enough, you create resistance to your current emotion, and consequently you can't get into "state". Solution: don't worry about state. Enjoy the moment for what it is, appreciate the women around you, then act."

Terrible paraphrasing, I know I know, but I couldn't sum it up without posting the article.There it is. The Shaytan that has been consuming me, the gremlin inside of me that kept growing every time I entered a club or any other social venue. It's the main fucking problem I put myself into daily and until now had no idea how to deal with. I tried different mantras; telling myself I'd be fine and that it didn't matter. None of which have worked so far. This has been the number one issue that has practically killed all of my interactions.

What a life-saver. Thanks porky.

P.s. I'd like to add that the other points which included letting yourself go in terms of being attracted to females and not restraining yourself was insightful. Also to have loads of reference experiences so that your subconscious is aware that this is not a new and scary proposition but as natural as breathing. Sex is just that, natural and healthy.

Onto other news.......

When initially reading the post which led me to the gem stated above, I was still on that approval seeking mission. My aim: To find out how to seduce women that are in scenes. What I failed to realise but do now is that we all are part of scenes...DUHHHHHHHH.

HAHAH...what complete self-rape. I'm into the party scene, PUA. The difference between me and Gabriella Golds is that she is basically expressing herself thorough action. She is actively pursuing her dreams. Whereas I was a recluse, until now that is. NO MORE!! I've tortured myself long enough. Most of my teens had been spent online and actively awkward behaviour. Well that is in the past. As Tolle said "The past is a previous manifestation of NOW" or something along those lines. I have been actively been inactive for fear of ridicule and nonacceptance.

Well fuck that. Months and months of reading articles, forums, books, listening to audios has finally hit me on a deep level. Its all been internalised. From now on I am James Devoe becoming Moe Warsame. Ive kept this alter ego of mine hidden for too long time. Flashes of JD have been seen from time to time. Well it's time LORD IT UP. Irrelevant let's fuck some biatches!!. GL, as incredibly sexy she is, is just another girl. Seriously, she is one amongst A MILLION or so 6-7s out there.

Amongst the points stated above was a suggestion that I treat all physically beautiful girls as 7s and if after engaging in convo with her you find out she is cool then she is bumped up to an 8.
Brilliant stuff.

It's time to LORRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRD!!

In other areas......

For now though, I am going to do the demonic confidence course to overcome my approach sticking point. I will follow 'the newbie guide to PUA' guideline thread on theplace.bz. To help me along the way. I will read as many Field Reports and Lay reports as possible. I will post an FR here on a daily basis and then I will start to post on theLSS forums once I get past the inital sticking points. I will go out solo from now on twice a week to bars and clubs around London.
I will befriend staff and locals. I will remain independent of the outcome of my approaches. No more needy shit. Fuck that!!

I am sorting out other areas of my lfie also including, health, wealth and general social life. I am utilising all of the tools available to me in terms of time management. I am trying one thing I am shitscared of every week, including flirting with a store assistant, seducing a girl in the daytime going for a same day date and kissing her, check out different scenes in the nightclub circuit, befriend a dude in the cue of a club, setting up a day 2 with a girl and pushing for a lay, hosting a party, sky-dive, horse ride, surf, ollie, befriend strangers in local pubs and bars, driving a motor bike, go to a festival by myself, travel by myself, move out of my mum's house, go to a tango class, muay thai class, brazilian jiu jitsu class etc.

That's all I can think of right now and should be more than enough for a year. However I am starting with basic shit first. 5 sets per day. I will work on eyecontact in all interactions that I have whether listening or talking or lazer eyes, I am working on voice projection aswell; speaking louder and more clearly. In time this will all internalise and tada! James Devoe will commence.

I am starting today, I will go to Kingston Bentall Centre and do the basic approaches there.
Where is the post office?? 5 sets of girls.

I will report back on my findings later today.

Mack within

HAHHA...Tariq Nasheed is THE SHIT...seriously I have been listening to this guy's podcasts for a week and a bit. The jokes have been in bundles, the guy can crack jokes. Aside from the odd enlightening post I truly have not gained a large amount of new information. What I have gained though is a different perspective to PUAdom, i.e. Mackin'.

Now I've always known about mackin, but what I did not realise was how similar it is to PUA but Pua is tailored towards the white community and more nerdy individuals. Now I'm not saying that either community does not have their odd share of naturals that require a push or a nerd, what im saying is that each attracts different dudes. It's bless though. I am learning from both camps and in all honesty I have learned ALOT from both.

In these last months post ramadhan I have slowly come back to 'normality' or mainstream behaviour with a totally new perspective. I have at least five different types of paradoxes going in my head.

1. The 'genes don't give a SHIT about your feelings'. I read 'Sperm Wars' which BLEW MY FUCKING MIND. Seriously that book was on some NEXT shit. The fact that a MILF was banging the gardeners as a result of the fact that she had 'bagged' herself a sugar daddy at 16 and inherited his fortune had a deeper meaning. It was INCREDIBLY insightful, however there were alot of critiscism in regards to some of the facts in the book.

2. The 'respect your mother and women' paradox. I am at the end with this shit though. I have completely eradicated the 'respect females' BS that had me brainwashed. If anything, PUAdom taught me to NEVER EVER respect a female EVER who is not your mother or sister. The respect has also got to be earned. I also realised and only recently did I actually face the shit full on; my sister has slowly but surely disrespecting me ever since I began uni. In fact it has reached an all time low.

Firstly, she has all of these fucking stupid female mood swings. She has this BITCH IN the club way of looking at me as if to say that I am below her. I hardly EVER speak to her about anything AT ALL. There is a HUGE level of disrespect going on. My mother is now demanding that I do the dishes. Completely FLIPPING out when I dont answer her. Fucking up my mornings and being an all around BITCH.

This is all down to ONE thing. I do not and have never ever jumped up to the plate of Alpha male of the family. This is due to the fact that my father is still alive and as a result I give him that respect as a man to let him lead the family. This is not MY family although I am a member but it is not a family of my own creation, therefore being in charge at the moment is really dumb especially considering my father is healthy and can still work.

Although my father is increasingly giving me the 'STEP THE FUCK UP' talk in a last ditch effort.
Right now I have digressed back to the old ways of behaving i.e. smoking weed and waking up in the afternoon. This is really something which is slowly poisoning my mind and as a result I honestly feel like a loser. My little brother Fuad is completely lost in terms of direction and as his role model I have FAILED drastically. I have NOT stepped up and therefore my family is in the shitter. I have been lying around like a fucking rug gathering dust. It's enough I have had enough of this poor mentality that I have been exhibiting of late.

I've had a number of realisations and tough pills to swallow which have left me on a path to manhood. I realise that I am the alpha-male of my world if I construct my social circle in that way and at the moment that image is not being portrayed. I realised that alpha male is a mentality and in fact it is all the so-called negative stereotypes of men that have been harshly critiscized since the birth of the feminist movement. All of these men have things in common.
Self-created purposes. I realised more than anything that purpose only exists in action. In other words, you have to actually be active in order to find your purpose in this life.

My standards in life have so far been INCREDIBLY low. In terms of social life, time management, hygiene, career, finances, health. I recently read a facebook wall dialogue between my little brother lee and his friend from norway. The guy was apparently training to be in the import and export business which is pretty ironic considering the lad is south american. Now consider the fact that he is 20 years old right now and he already knows his career path and that I am still figuring out where my path will lead; you start to realise that I am fucking up BIG Time.

I recently had a conversation with one of my friends Andre who informed me about hospital jobs and becoming a health-care assistant. Now, in the moment I was pretty engaged and aggreable beause I just wanted to vibe. However I realised how far my standards had dropped and how incredibly sheep-like I had become. I was now another nigga with no hope. I am telling you I have become another statistic as a result of hanging around the twins. My demeanour has regressed tremendously. Andre is trying to AMOG me subtely which I have caught onto real quick. Now do not get me wrong I am learning alot at the same time in terms of just vibing with other men.

The reason why I am hanging with the twins is that I wish to understand the homie mentality further and basically putting all the pieces of the puzzle together. The king flex show has really opened my eyes up about the black people in america and the blacks over here aswell as the reasons behind the male-female dynamic. He spat some true shit.

I also realised how INCREDIBLY manipulative Andre is and how that shit has rubbed off on me. 48 laws of power in full effect. As the saying goes you are who you hang with. I wish to remove myself from this current set-up. I will definitely continue to hang with the twins but I have to reduce the exposure because they are on this thuggish BS that Im not really feeling.

I need to move out of my mother's house IMMEDIATELY but before I go I want to stop that rewinding mental torture that my mother has put me through for all these years as a result of my actions. Ive been FUCKING up on a massive scale and I did not nip that in the bud. Ultimately I am in a strange situation which I thought Id never find myself in as a 15 year old male. However in retrospect I can see where I failed. Basketball was my main social circle and once that fizzled I struggled.

My social skills where non existent in college. I was awkward as fuck. I started reading the game and upon entering uni I was slightly informed however still massively naive. Two years into uni and knowledge of game and I have gained an incredible amount of realisations about myself.
I have let myself go and complacent. Therefore my life was down the shitter.

Anyways a new chapter has begun as Jesus said ' Once I became a man, I was no longer a child',
Not a fucking child ANYMORE. It took me too long to realise this shit but better late than never.

Health wealth and relationships will all get sorted PRONTO.

Check back in a bit.

A New Beginning

Firstly let me start off by saying that this has probably been the best week I've ever had.
I attended the LSS bootcamp and saw some things I had read actually work. I wish to detail this particular experiences as I had a lot of 'AHAs'. First I wish to re-publish a comment my bootcamp coach had written that really blew my mind. One because it was highly positive and complimentary but also because it fucking brightened my day.

Hey Motown,

It is great to meet with you - I was your instructor on Friday. I am delighted that you had a blast and felt that you made progress.

Man, you so can totally nail this beautiful art as you are tall, handsome, stylishly dressed, fun and you exude positivity. You just have to realise this yourself , approach, open and stay in set mate! If you just avoid "premature ejection" you will be on the path to mackdom.

Guys, you should have seen Mo do his first Direct Opener on the street outside a tube station around Covent Garden! He was buzzing with elation after pushing himself out of his comfort zone !
I want you to remember that moment, how good you felt, how easy it was and how receptive that hot girl was and remind yourself of that moment everytime you see a hot girl and approach her!

Fair play to you though - both yourself and A opened sets when I told you too. Not necessarily an easy thing to do, to be forced into set but you did it. It was a long, exhausting and fun night. Also remember the pointers that I gave you in that first bar for the first few minutes of the interaction.

And remember that seated two-set in Onanon that I re-opened? The first few minutes don't matter, just stay in set and plough, plough and plough somemore like a farmer on speed! Then, like a flower in the sunshine, the set *will* open up to you and its on!

This shit is easy and fun so stick with it!

Good stuff mate, keep in touch,
JT

PS- cool handle, very appropriate!

Ok. I'm going to break down what happened that night. I had finished uni but had been well dressed when I went to the bootcamp. It was located in King's Cross at some youth centre called 1 Kx. I arrived an hour or so early. So I chilled at McD's for a bit. When the time came around to go I went about 20 mins early. They hadn't even set up yet. I went in and saw this cute pakistani receptionist. Just as I was about to holler some dude dressed like a typical uni dude hollered at me. He was kinda skinny with really beady eyes. He also had this incredibly dominant frame. For example on seeing him, he did not smile but made strong eye contact. Despite being much bigger than him I could tell this dude was one of the coaches. He had a scottish/welsh/australian/fuckknows accent which took me off guard. I found out he was Skeletor. A prolific poster on the board.

Anyways I spoke to the dude as we were climbimg the stairs toward the seminar room. It was basically a hall with a bunch of chairs set out. roughly 30. I had been incredibly tired as I had roughly no sleep the night before. So had red eye and stank breath. I managed to turn it around though and stayed on point with red bulls and coffee. Anyways back to the seminar. As I introduced myself to the rest of the guys, I happened to see this guy called Shaksi on the LSS and to my surprise he was a bloody mali. LOL. Like a proper mali which shocked the shit out of me. He was wearing old-school Baket loafers, was fat and had an obvious mali haircut. I wanted to say 'WARYAAA' but thought I'd address him like any other person.

I was also introduced to Andy- who is the LSS founder. I was honoured to say the least. The guy was basically a british version of Neil Strauss. He was wearing a choker necklace, bootcut trousers, had a disability, thinning hair, receding hairline, glasses, buck-teeth and a high-pitched voice. Despite all of these fucking setbacks, this dude had the most amazing presence. Like seriously powerful presence. Good shit. Then I saw some of the other speakers like Fearless, some asian dude who was shit scared of presenting. I can tell he is a mack on the field however.

Anyways as more and more guys came in, I realised I was one of the more up-scale dudes in terms of fashion sense. I only saw a small number of guys that were really well dressed. It could be because of the nature of the bootcamp. Most of the guys had been dressed in those brown suede trainer shoe hybrids. Some looked like complete nerds. Other were hooligans which shocked the HELL out of me. There was a dude from Newcastle who now lived in Wales who wanted to move to London to be a personal trainer with the most fucked up nose I HAVE EVER seen. He was the stereotypical hooligan from Newcastle. Broken nose from fights etc. The whole shebang. However this man was really laid-back and really ladish. Cool dude.

I saw a few other individuals that were older such as Andy my wingman on the field. Im talking 45years of age, GROWN ASS MEN dawg. Alot of the guys aside from a handful were really lacking in the appearance department. I saw some guy with a bloody red french painter hat, I mean crickey mate, what the hell are you doing dressed as a fucking french painter. I had no idea where he was going with that look. He seemed really shy and sensitive despite speaking up in the questions part of the seminar. I got introduced to a couple of fellas with really cool backgrounds.

Halfway through the seminar this white dude came in. Ginger hair, dark pink shirt, leather wrist band, COOL fucking tattoo, the cooooooooooooooooooooooolesstt fucking biker boots that I had been searching high and low for, cool boot-cut jeans and a wicked watch.

This fucking guy was really cool looking I give him that. You could tell he had been partying endlessly. We chatted for a bit at the end of the seminar, I was worried about my breath so I tried not to speak too much. After getting paired up with our coaches we then gathered up outside.

There was some confusion about who I was supposed to be going with and as a result I ended up with this really cool non-Irish sounding Irish dude called JUICE Terry. This guy had a hilarious persona. I mean, he wasn't funny when we were chilling but on retrospect I thought he was a joker. The main thing was his posture. Really REALLY alpha. His eyecontact was intense. He also spoke really really clear. His projection was Nimbus like. He was cool.

My wingman Andy was quite the opposite. A writer (Not Hank Moody) who was a typical of all older generation writers. He was really colourful with his language, very apprehensive about speaking, not a space taker, had a really whinging type of vibe when he asked questions. He had a real artsy vibe about him which made sense later on when he said he was a writer. That's all I gather on the awesome Andy.

So we head off to the town. We catch the train. Discuss some Game on the train. In front of women and other people which made me laugh and get uncomfortable because it was SO out of my reality. Maybe because I've read all there is on Game did I think that it was not that shocking but when a hb7 looked our way I kinda pissed my pants.

Anyways on Leicester Square I had quite a few cold approaches, in that the bitches I approached were very cold to my approach. We were looking for a bar to drink because I was shitting myself. However after a few drinks. The approaches were a joke. The reason I did not get anywhere with these girls was because I approached them in a really creepy manner, on one occassion I approached a girl from the side which for that environment was a bit odd.

Mostly white girls were approached although I tried some other races. One particular girl looked up and down at me as described in numerous game chronicles. She scanned me for value using her Reticular Activation System. The opener was really weak (Do you know where Starbucks is?) and my voice was too weak so the girls after a second shout would leg it. As I am really observational, saw JT do a clap and give off a really high energy vibe when he approached.

I saw him do it a couple more times and after a couple of attempts I managed to stop several chicks. Some where stopped and other did not. After a string of cold responses and a weak club performance JT thought we should head off to Convent Garden.

I was slightly tipsy and felt awesome. On our way there we saw these 8 girls who looked like supermodels. I mean Victoria Secret not Catwalk. These chicks were all 8s and above, really hot.
I approached with the clap and opener which worked a charm. I was stunned these hot fucking girls would stop and opened them with the Starbucks opener. It worked an absolute treat even though my delivery was weak. I teased one of the girls who was really really cute and then left.

We arrived at Convent Garden ready to do some approaches. Whilst we were looking for potential girls I happened to spot a chick from afar. She looked arabic from afar. So I approach with 'I came over to tell you that you are absolutely gorgeous and I would have kicked myself if I had not come to speak to you. I think you're adorable.' I was really feeling this shit so it came out correct. It was my first direct approach EVER, let alone on a street. Thank God! She smiled like crazy. She had a really cute smile and Fuck-me eyes. I kinoed and asked where she was from, her name and other generic shit. Apparently she was French/Mali (the country), her name was Ilhan (I think), she works at Cafe Nero, she has been here for a few weeks (probably BS) and was waiting for her friend to arrive.

She was really receptive and I cracked a few lame jokes which she thankfully responded to out of politeness. I personally think she was being polite initially but had I stayed in the convo for 5 mins now so that thought vanished. I then made an abrupt exit which was really really chodey. I proceeded to shake her hand (WHO THE FUCK shakes a girl's hand....seriously WHY!?!??). However I did not want to be rude or a man so I proceeded to act like a complete pussy. She shaked it back (*cringe*) thank God. I may be downplaying it slightly but I will never not got a hug AT LEAST from a set. That was weak and I should have ploughed and got the digits but instead I shake a girl's hand. She was like 'huh?' and I responded 'I am going now. Enjoy your night it was a pleasure meeting you' Anyways it made my pimp hand super strong.

I now felt Amazing, like I was on Cloud FUCKING nine!!. That girl really made my night. If she had not been there I would have had the worst night considering what happened after approaching her. We went to a few bars which were really weak, we couldn't get into Tiger Tiger which sucked. So we opted for the next weakest shit in ONANON (aka The Devil's Anus Crack) really weak ass club. The sets were really cold and unreceptive to my black ass. One, because I now looked like a post man with my bag and two because I did not plough enough. Honestly like JT said the shit really is easy in terms of the approaching. It's rapport/comfort I really need to work on.

I can approach any girl at this point in time but going from there is what I need to learn. This should not take too long to learn. I learned that girls are shit-scared of strange men approaching them and that it is best to talk for 90% of the time in the first 3-5 mins and then ask a few questions and take it from there. Kino and lazer eyes are more important. Escalation is SO key...always CLOSE as Ozzie says. ABC bitch. Neg/cocky funny at first but then switch it up with comfort and if a girl tries to go back to bantering be unreactive. I must have a abundance mentality in regards to losing a chick. There is always another bus coming. Also, I learned 3 years of reading about game, in one night of flops and one semi-successful set. Amazing how much I had to adjust but it was automatic because I took nothing personal.

I feel I have garnered so much momentum since then and I really do not want to stop. I want to approach girls everyday. However I feel really really shit about my appearance, unemployment and social life at the moment. So much has changed in terms of the situations but the themes have not changed. I am however improving mentally. I am being very pragmatic as of late.
I want to create a set of principles that define who I want to be. These will entail the shit I will be striving towards in term of my personality and also the type of shit I will not tolerate in my life.

My mind just had an orgasm of thoughts so I am writing this tomorrow. This has been a real eye-opener.

Steve Maxwell 300 workout

I've been contemplating as to what exercise programs I should use to improve my fitness. I decided I wanted to develop overall fitness i.e. stamina, strength and speed. The aesthetic will come into play as I progress. As I'm still broke I will not be doing a weight-lifting programme, although I will incorporate 49 kg squat and a 49kg benchpress.

I wanted to do the crossfit workout, however I am looking a for a more total body workout. I used to do the navy seal workout with great effect. I have given myself 1 month starting from today to be able to do the 300 reps required for the exercises. I shall play basketball 2 times per week and football once a week in order to improve my stamina.

The programme is broken up into 3 parts. Beginner, Intermediate and Advanced. I shall start with the Beginner today and hopefully begin with the intermediate by next week. I shall record my progress every day on here. I shall start with the Navy seal workout in order to be able to do the intermediate Spartan workouts. I shall start with a warm-up session.

I shall start my exercise today at 12.40pm GMT.

Exercise Reps

Close-grip chin-ups 3 reps

30 secs

Pull-ups 3 reps

30 Secs

Behind the neck 3 reps

30 Secs

close-grip pull-ups 3reps


Dips 3x10 30 secs rest between each set


Pushups 2x10

Triceps 2x10

Wide pushups 2x10


Body-weight row 3x10


Dive-bombers 10


Situps 50


cross-arm Situps 50


Flutter kicks 50


Half-situps 25

Cruncher Situps 25


Lizard stretch 3


Atomic situps 40


Good morning darlings 50


Neck Rotations 50 reps each side


Neck lifts 100 reps


Lunges 50 x 2


Squats 100 reps x2


Charlie chaplins in 50

Charlie chaplins out 50


Squats 50



Sumo squat 30



Hindu-squat 30

My name is...

M but I have several aliases that I go by; Toothbrush, JamesDevoe, Gouwan, Ashley Bufount. I realise how ridiculously retarded each name sounds, however due to my equally ridiculous sense of self I think they're cool. I'm 21, been so for about a month now so I'm pretty pleased with myself. Why am i doing a blog exactly? No idea..lol...sounded like a blast. So i gave it a try. Nah, I'm just joking. This is more of a personal log, where I can keep progress of certain things like fitness goals, films I've watched, current interests.

Now I'm going to be perfectly honest here. I have loads of goals that I wish to attain, however the main one is to go from a 21 year-old virgin (HA...it's true sadly) to a fully fledged ladies and mans man. I have 1 year before I finish my degree, I hope to resolve this problem before then. Can you blame me?At the start of each week I shall set myself small goals which ultimately lead to the main goals.

I have all the tools necessary to reach this goal and because its a new year I consider 2008 the year of my rebirth. I shall assess myself every week to see whether I've reached the goals I set for myself. Before I start this experiment, I am going to first cover all the things I wish to improve. Some of the things will be ongoing others will be temporary. My goal is to be a completely improved version of myself by the end of this year. These are the areas I am going to improve.

• Appearance
• Knowledge
• Travel
• Career
• Social-Life

Appearance

• Grooming
• Fitness
• Style
• Diet

Knowledge

• Books
• Individuals
• Travel
• Experience

Travel

• Locations

Career

• Online Start-up

Social-Life

• Friends
• Pick-up
• Family Relationships
• New friends