I've made some MONUMENTAL changes in the last 4 days. It's bizarre whenever I meet up with someone new from the LSS I have this extreme enthusiasm about me which borders on the straight up insane. However it is only when drinks are involved. I am what you call a happy drunk. I get over-enthusiastic and fun-loving. I'm actually quite a joy to be around. Tons of energy and just down-right wacky. The reason I am referring to my drunken ways today is due to getting my first ever kiss close. I shall detail how I managed to lord it up at 4 clubs. Pretty bizarre night.
So, I decided to post on the LSS in an attempt to look for a wing. I didn't get too many responses so I did the next best thing which was to sort of tag along to a meetup. I made a variety of responses to numerous dudes and even went as far as to read field reports consequently Pm-ming the dudes I felt were most suitable to my needs.
I happened to get a response Wednesday night. Awesome stuff. At first I considered not going however, as this had been possibly the best week I've had for quite some time I thought fuck it. I txt back. We decided to meet in front of Covent Garden Station. His name was Jonas..lol. The most awesome wing man I've had for quite some time. He was so chill and he had this really awesome accent which made opening sets a breeze. It showed girls that I was cultured and open-minded unlike a lot of black stereoptypes.
So we had met up to go on a pub crawl. I had never heard of such a thing but thought why not?. It ended up being the most wicked night I can remember. We started the night at a small pub just getting to know each other. He was here for the weekend, had a seminar with PUATraining and just decided on a whim that he would leave for London. Not that it's a big deal considering both our countries are in the EU. Anyways we got off to a flying start. I hadn't had a lick of sleep that day and was running on pure adrenaline. Drinks started flowing. Jonas got the first, I got the second and so on. We positioned ourselves rather awkwardly at the bar. Near the end. As our mission had been to actually close some bitches we started plotting.
I had made eyecontact with a red-head Hb6 with awesome style. We'll call her Cindy Lauper. I had broken the ice by showing her my pub crawl band. She responded with a smile. So we went over to the girls. We had the most awesome icebreaker. I just started Hi5ing everyone. We started Hi5ing the chicks. Sweet opener as it was really high energy and was fun. We got off to a quick start. I started to maneuvre the set which had a hb4 and hb3. They were pretty cool girls.
They were all from Australia which was awesome considering I had never really approached an Australian bird. I hear they are pretty much blokes with vaginas. LOL. Anyways conversation fizzled out but Jonas persisted despite this. I made an attempt to isolate Cindy Lauper but she was really shy. My game just isn't sharp enough yet to sort of get out the wild side in girls plus being drunk didn't really help in terms of being take seriously. Despite all this Jonas persisted although the girls attraction levels were falling at shocking levels. My convo with Cindy Lauper had fizzled out. We decided to make a move. I then proceeded to lord up the venue. I started hi-5ing everybody, toasting left, right and centre.
Some were receptive, others thought I was a nut and rightly so. No worries. I didn't give a shit. Whilst Jonas went to the toilet I proceeded to chat up a group of women. All of which looked like they were part of some work party, probably out for a few. I approached with the same opener as before. I was pretty high energy when I came in but slightly more composed. I cheek-kissed all 6 of them. I then proceeded to ask them how they all knew each other. As guessed they were down for a drink and some had just arrived in the country. I managed to create some jealousy plots as I jumped from circle to circle.
I then merged sets which seemed extremely natural. Once I had built up enough social value I proceeded to chat to the dudes who were once more very cautious and frankly quite pissed. No problemo. As I had built up some rapport with one of the event leaders whose name escapes me, I decided to re-engage with a sweet little opener to get the other event leader on my side. It worked like a charm. The girls had been enthralled by the wizardry that I was pulling off in that little mini-pub. It was fucking mad I have to say. It was like I was on this highway to paradise. Jonas had been an incredibly useful team-mate in that he provided me with some social proof. Also, considering that I was the only black fellow in the pubcrawl I was already unique and too have the added bonus of being cultured really did most of the work for me when opening.
We then proceeded to the next pub. I took this opportunity to chat up few of the girls, to get a rapport started. I even linked arms with the event leader to the place. I got massive social proof.
We were then joined by an incredibly good-looking couple. I happened to take a liking to the bird if I might say so. She was like a lil Megan Fox. Seriously She was sexy as fuck. The dude was pretty laid back and cool which helped because I was really trying to make a move on the chick. I managed to get her attention when we were leaving pub 2.
In pub 2 I had made an effort to engage other members of the crew which I found to be harder now as the alcohol effects were wearing off. The girls had been very unreceptive aswell. No problems though. As ever Jonas the Legend came through. He used his german charm and boyish good looks to open the girl. I saw the opportunity and pounced on her. The opener? 'I think you have a really pretty forehead, you're like a little baby' JONAS, you have to love this man's randomness. The girl responded on cue. However, I stepped in and said ' I think what he meant to say was that he finds you very attractive and that a nice forehead tends to be the main reason girls are pretty' pretty lame but it sort of saved it because I didn't want to appear the bizarre black dude that was just lurking.
It worked. As I had seen the couple entering together, I remained respectful and asked whether they were together. She said yes, I probed a bit more, it seemed they were very happy together, typical love story of love lost and found again. Anyways being me I tried to holla at this honey as we were leaving pub2. As I had already established a bit of rapport with the honey's dude, I acknowledged him and assured him that nothing was going to happen. I have to be honest though, it could have I was in STATE. The words were flowing like water, pretty amazing stuff. On another note I did most of my sarging within the group sort of like social circle game which was awesome as I had a really fun-loving vibe. Some people didn't like it which is cool. High energy is fucking exhausting and it sure does get annoying.
Anyways I did a few approaches in club 3 which were pretty mediocre and much harder as I was getting creepier. I saw a gorgeous Hb7 half japanese half english babe. She was pretty hot. She was also a hired gun which probably meant that she hd to be nice. No problemo. However I did get a bit too sleazy which is something to eliminate from my game. I also need to learn how to calibrate. Otherwise I made some headway at this club. I managed to approach a pair of french birds who were pretty cool. Language barrier was killing the vibe though. Moving along.
On our way to club 4 I managed to ruin all that hard work. The event leader got pissed at my overly cocky teasing vibe. Too much of anything is bad. I managed to re-engage one of the girls from set 1 on the way to club 4. She was pretty cool about everything. Club 4 seemed inappropriately layed out. Really hard to get any sets going. I got stuck with this pair of swedes who define everything sweden is NOT about i.e. stunning blondes, silly accents etc. Hwoever they seemed pretty cool. I asked them whether they wanted to get drinks. A trick!..lol Pretty harsh but they didn't seem to mind. I left them getting drinks and made up some lame excuse to exit. I looked for Jonas who was dancing. More rapport with Jonas who got cooler by the minute. This group of chicks were practically grinding on the dude and he didn't seem to care. Another lost opportunity.
On another note I had told everybody that I was leaving for home at club 3 as the night was fizzling out. I made up some BS excuse about my GF. Quite believable at this point. Jonas said stay so did the cool aussie couple. By this time I had built a really cool rapport with the cute aussie chick. The dude seemed to like me aswell.
At the final level we got to a really cheesy bar by the name of ZOO bar. I have avoided this place like the plague for years. Anyways I was like fuck it. We got inside. By this time a lot of the girls found me to be rather annoying. Fuck it. Whilst chatting to Jonas Cindy Lauper decided she would give me the lazer eyes. Right back at ya babe! I went over and opened with ' You know you can't just look at me like that without saying something'. Worked like a charm. I could sense she was really drunk so it was like cool. She was like 'I thought you were leaving' I replied with 'I couldn't leave you babes, I had to see you one more time' Cheetos I know. She then proceeded to go for the kiss. I guess they weren't lying about these aussie chicks being blokes in disguise. We kissed, there was some tongue action, standard stuff. She was rescued by one of the ugs. I guess it had something to do with me being black, me not being her type, me having attracted one of her friends. The reasons were endless. Anyways Jonas wanted to go for a smoke so we did.
For some strange reason I find Cindy Lauper on the dance floor again. I then take a more direct role, this time we get to kissing hardcore. I had turned into the kissing banditouche. No number closes at all or even facebook closes which was mainly due to me not giving a fuck and really not having any hot babes around which tends to motivate me to try and close. Bizarrely this blonde chick kept staring at me and then running away anytime I was near her. That's girls for you. She was pretty hot, too much make up though.
I will try to close from now on just for practice. Day game also needs work as I've yet to even attempt a day approach. Night game needs more calibration, more transitioning and also frame control. Lots of work to do but I am committed to it.
Overall I found the night to be pretty decent especially for Jonas who had a few facebook closes. He didn't seem to haps though. Pretty laid back about it. He texted me a couple days later to meet for drinks but I chickened out. Fuck it though. This is one of many wings I will encounter.
The beautiful thing about this night is that it sorted of opened me up like never before. I seemed very sociable and incredible motivated to meet with people to create a larger social circle. The self-confidence I've gained from just that one night has seriously affected me deeply. I was overly enthusiastic when I went to the twins house the night after. The jokes were flowing. I even bought alcohol and really felt chatty as hell. Naomi me best mate was there. I seriously, think that girl is cool as hell, really laid back and a perfect match for Chris. Then it happened.
Joe came. I have to admit at first I was like ok cool, a chance to make another friend. Howver he was a bit of a dick. He wasn't attempting much convo which means he doesn't consider me high-value enough to speak to. Finally the convo started to flow. He seemed pretty cool. Alpha yes, but, don't try that shit with me. Several times he tried to dominate convos particularly when I spoke about the night before. I was holding court and then he tried to frame control with 'did you get any numbers though?' I responded with ' Yes man I got two'. I didn't. Frankly from then on the respect level just faster than you can say 'DICK HEAD'. We got to chat about hair cuts and he decided to compliment me on my new hair cut. However, I didn't say anything back to him. He then gave me a look of 'It's ON bitch'. Fuck it I'm a man I will not back away from a midget like Joe, no matter what the stories are about his supposed strength. I could give a FUCK!!. He attempted to compliment me again but I weren't having it.
Later in the night as the drinks were flowing and the ting was being smoked he tried to pull a sly one. He tried accuse me of acting weird and making strange faces. I called him on his BS, he persisted by stating he had photographic evidence, I denied it all. Overall I have to say Joe thinks he can challenge me with his tiny frame but doesn't realise that I will crush him both socially and physically. I'm sorry to say that I actually thought he was a cool dude at first but he just turned out to be an asshole not in a fun way but just fucking socially awkward. Typical male ego BS. Don't watch though, I am incredibly competitive when challenged, I don't back away when called out, especially by some little fuck.
Aside from that it was overall an amazing way to end february. I realised I had not employed most of the guidelines I had set for myself until then which drew me to the conclusion that the reason I had been lazy all this time was because of a lack of a social life. Seriously, that was the main reason. The preparation time was improving incredibly quick. I seemed more alive and sharp. I also felt really gutsy. It was as if I had been hiding this awesome human being all along beneath this veneer of low self-esteem. Not wanking also gave me an incredible edge. In fact I think not wanking is the main reason all this has happened so far. I had not wanked in 5 days and the effects were amazing. I felt really energised and my appearance had improved ten fold.
It's amazing what one night out and a kiss close can do for a man. I really felt on top of the world. This must be how Mus and Liban feel all the time. The problem is I don't recreate this feeling so that I can continue to feel like that all the time. Most of it has to do with state and also drinking (something I don't do regularly). I will post on wanking because I feel that this one thing has really crippled me socially. It's like I lose my swag whenever I wank. I wish to eliminate this thought process because not wanking can really fuck with your body chemistry. Also, working out helps something I must start again as I am getting lazy.
So that's it. I must create an active social life, not wank and workout more. These things will result in me getting laid like a rockstar. I will post more on not wanking.
